Blog 10: Relationship Bank Account (RBA）

 I. Yours to others

  • Draw a table with 3 columns
  • List down all the people who are important in your lives (in one column)
  • In the other two columns, list down your deposits and withdrawals in their bank account

EBA

Deposits

Withdrawals

Kai Wei

(roommate)

·       Share food with him

·       Talking to him about his heart

·       Play games with him

·       Disturbing his sleep

·       Disturbing his study

·       Complaining about him bothering me

Yi Xuan

(brother)

·       Buy him a gift

·       Talk to him

·       Teach him to do his homework

·       Not talking to him

·       Complaining that he was annoying

·       Use his stuff without telling him

Ms Helena

·       Concentrate on the lesson

·       Answering questions

·       Turn on the webcam during online classes

·       No questions answered

·       No camera on

·       Not paying attention to the lecture

 

2. Others to yours

  • Draw another table with 3 columns
  • List down the same people
  • In the other two columns, list down their deposits and withdrawals in your bank account

EBA

Deposits

Withdrawals

Kai Wei

(roommate)

·       Help me buy dinner

·       Said I made a good dinner

·       Interrupting my studies

·       Wake me up

Yi Xuan

(brother)

·       Depend on me

·       More communication

·       No talking

·       Using my stuff without telling me

·       No respect for me

Ms Helena

·       Praise me

·       Understand me

·       Help me with my problem

·       Words are a bit messy

·       Sometimes the sound is too loud and scares me

3. Personal Challenge

Pick ONE important relationship in your life that is damaged. It may be with a parent or a sibling or a friend. Describe the steps you would take to rebuild that relationship
： My mother, First communicate with him, buy him things, study hard, come home to her and say she cooks good food.

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